The Sitting Month

Do you know that woman in China stay in bed for a month after giving birth.  It’s called the sitting month.  They stay inside (away from the cold and wind), restore their bodies and rest.  There’s a nurse that cook for and attends to the mother and baby and it’s a special time marked with many traditions.

I’ve been told if you don’t hold this tradition, you will age quicker, you will have bad joints, bones, pains when you’re older, spots on your hands, that you will get sick immediately, etc.

The other day I was told that many Chinese woman during that time don’t brush their teeth, don’t wash their hair, can’t venture outside, wear caps on their heads when they leave the hospital, should only eat hot foods and must restore their weakness.

In Shijiazhuang, these traditions seem to me to be closely followed.

Just one of those interesting cultural things that is perhaps different than your home cultures.

The Fireworks

We’ve loved Chinese New Year.  I’ve loved the fireworks, the festivities and seeing people together in the plazas enjoying family time.  I love watching the little kids there and thinking, “this is why they love Chinese New Year.”  I’m sure that they love the treats that they’re parents are getting them, but even more than that, I think they love just being with their family.

Before long, the vegetable markets and the rest of the stores will open.  I went to Carefour today and found lots of people, but not a lot of nice, fresh produce or foreign products like butter, cereal, margarine, etc.

I think these firework stores will soon be closing up.  So go get your fireworks soon!

Happy Chinese New Year!  I think many people are back in Shijiazhuang during this time (perhaps from abroad, or studying, working, etc.)  I hope if you’re back here, that you have a great time with your family.  And if you’re just arriving, enjoy getting to know the city and find your way around it.

The Dragon Year

Chinese New Year is almost here!

And this year it’s the Year of the Dragon.  Many Chinese will get married this year, pregnant mothers are trying to “delay” birth so that they have a dragon baby and special events will be scheduled this year.

What you can expect over Chinese New Year

  • Fireworks being sold everywhere
  • Large containers of everything from eggs, to oranges and chocolate being sold (people give these away, keep them for when their family visit, etc.)
  • TONS of people at the supermarket “stocking up” before stores close
  • People getting very excited to go to their “home-towns”
  • A bit of a craze at the train station and a shortage of train tickets
  • Chinese lanterns being hung everywhere
  • Chinese families will begin to clean their houses based on the superstition that they are clearing away the old spirits.
  • You can find red envelopes very easily (and everywhere).  If you are good friends with a Chinese family, it’s expected that you give their baby or child money inside of the envelope.  I think a standard amount is usually around 100 RMB.

What I never expected

  • The fireworks last for about 2 weeks (24 hours a day)
  • The car alarms are also quite loud
  • China mobile closes and you don’t want to be stuck without phone credit
  • The veggie markets are closed (so stock up on your veg and fruit)
  • If your local corner shop is open, most likely their prices will increase during this time.
  • People will be wearing beautiful new clothes.  I was in my regular attire:)
  • The fireworks boxes are amazing.  You need to watch them being set off – it is quite a spectacle.  People take turns lighting off their boxes and crowds stand by to watch.
  • People don’t just buy A firework.  I’ve seen that car boots are FILLED with boxes small and big.
  • Things to stock up on: big bottles of water for your water dispenser, phone credit, food (although larger supermarkets ARE open during the day.  They close earlier though) some fireworks, chocolate, etc.

Enjoy Chinese New Year (the Spring Festival) and talk to you in the Year of the Dragon:)

Christmas Time!

Get yourself a Christmas tree, listen to a Christmas station on Jango and get into the Christmas spirit:)  More and more people in Shijiazhuang are celebrating Christmas, but it makes so much difference to have a small tree, Christmas decorations and listen to holiday music.

I love making holiday cookies.  They taste great and they’re nice little things to give away to neighbors, friends, etc.

Hope you have a great Christmas and are blessed with peace and joy.

 

Wonder Mall Starbucks open and other updates

For those of you who live relatively close to the Wonder Mall, Starbucks is now open:)  It opened yesterday (mysteriously not on the 10th).  It’s a nice place.  I had a sandwich and tea tonight.  Vanilla steamed milk yesterday:)  It’s perhaps a bit quieter than the Wanda Mall Starbucks, but that’s ok.

The Holiday Inn in the Wonder Mall should be opening within the next couple of months.

The Intercontinental Buffet near the Wanda Mall is great.  We went out for a special event with friends.  Great selection.  Only complaint, couldn’t find cold water anywhere.

Not sure what Christmas plans are happening.  If anyone hears of anything, let everyone know.  I imagine that like usual, the bigger shopping malls and grocery stores will have lots of Christmas sales and discounts and some of the malls have special Christmas parties.

There is a foreigner Christmas party (for those working as teachers, doing business here in the city, etc.)  It’s an invite only event and thrown by the Shijiazhuang government.  I’m not sure when it’s happening this year.

If you’re looking for Christmas decorations, check out Nan Santiao.  They have TONS.  Bring your camera because you can get some great photos of shops spilling over with decorations and people all crowded in there.  You can get Christmas cards there too, but expect to pay around 2.50 -3 rmb per card.  They are very nice, but also a bit formal.  This year I got all of my cards on taobao.   I got boxed sets that I’ve very pleased with and they cost a lot less than buying individual cards.  Overall, it was a lot easier than bargaining, going downtown and buying individual cards.  NOTE: If you mail them from China, you need to get a special envelope and then put the address on THAT envelope.  I forgot and had about 30 cards all addressed that I wanted to mail out.  In the end, when I realized they wanted me to re address all of them, I just sent them in one package to a friend.

Links to Christmas cards:

http://item.taobao.com/item.htm?id=13246859799  and http://trade.taobao.com/trade/detail/tradeSnap.htm?tradeID=112688642600234

Happy Holidays!

 

 

Thanksgiving in China

With Thanksgiving coming up, I have food on my mind!

What are your Thanksgiving plans?  Did you know that you CAN get a turkey in China. It’s a bit expensive, but possible.  Click on turkey in China above and you’ll be taken to the taobao link to check it out.  You can also get them directly in Beijing.  The prices at Jenny Wang’s are about the same (45 RMB / Jin).  If not turkey, why not chicken.  Or duck!  Go get a nice Beijing Duck.  YUM!

As for the other dishes:

  • Gravy (you can make your own pretty easily, but I gotta confess that I have packets from the UK that I just need to add water to, keeping things easy over here:)
  • Stuffing (Love that we can find all of these ingredients in this recipe here!  Check out Bread Talk or the bakery across from Beiguo and the People’s park for french loafs if you don’t want to make your own bread).
  • Mash Potatoes (we make these all the time.  Just don’t overcook your potatoes.  Lots of butter:) )
  • Green Bean Casserole (love this because it doesn’t use cream of anything soup, which is hard to get here and because there are tons of step-by-step photos.)  Gotta find the
    “natural approach” here!
  • Sweet Potatoes (I made this pumpkin casserole the other day and it was great.  I reduced the sugar and it was still nice and sweet and perfect Thanksgiving food.  I’m going to make this again this Thursday!)
  • Cranberry sauce (I ordered cranberry’s on Taobao but they haven’t arrived yet.  I haven’t seen them around anywhere else…so may not be worth the hassle).
  • Salads (I love 7 layer salads. But I also love fruity salads for Thanksgiving.  Go crazy with your salads!)
  • Bread (I’ve done my share of homemade bread.  But with lots of cooking on the burners, I’d suggest running to Carefour and getting a bag of rolls or going to Bread Talk and getting one of their loafs.  Here’s a bread recipe in case you want to make your own.  I’ve found that my home-made bread is OK.  Never truly great.  It may because I just use the normal flour here instead of bread flour.  Maybe I’m just not a true bread maker;) Who knows!).
  • Pecan pie (this recipe doesn’t use corn syrup!  I made this one last year and everyone loved it.  I liked it even better than normal corn syrup recipes).
  • Pumpkin pie (using a real pumpkin, which are readily available this time of season in China)
  • Apple Pie (this recipe does use cream.  Often you CAN find cream.  But if it’s one of those days.. skip it and go to a different recipe.)

Where to get non-Chinese baking ingredients (online and around town):

  • An oven.  Check out Taobao (look at my previous posting for instructions on how to use).
  • Mozz Cheese (I went through this SO fast.  Tasted great), Evaporated Milk, Cream Cheese (from Australia, tastes good. Decent value 500 grams for about 25 rmb), Powdered Sugar, Whipping cream, Butter (500 grams for 20 rmb.  Better value than the supermarkets) Vanilla, Baking soda (you can find it at the Wonder Mall in the foreign supermarket part next to the cleaning products!) I google a lot of recipes when I need a substitute, which is probably daily!

Restaurants / Hotels that will have a Thanksgiving meal

  • Check out the Intercontinental (next to Wanda).  They’re going to be having a Thanksgiving spread. 86-311-67796666
  • And I believe the World Trade Plaza hotel also offers a Thanksgiving meal. 86-311-8667-8888
  • Perhaps call ahead and get prices and make a reservation (and make sure that they’re doing a Thanksgiving spread).

Happy Thanksgiving!

I have so much to be thankful for this year.  So in between cooking, eating, football and enjoying this special holiday, I’ll be giving thanks.

A few things I’m thankful for: my amazing husband and son, another son on the way, an exciting year of growth, new friendships, old friendships, grace, joy and peace.  And lots of funny stories from living abroad.

Happy Thanksgiving to you all:) 

And there’s HEAT!

All over the city, central heating should be turned on. The government was due to turn on the central heating on November 15th.  It will then stay on until March 15th.

You pay for your central heating per square meter. So if your apartment is 2-3 bedrooms and around 150 square meters, then you may be looking at paying around 3000 RMB.  Some people pay much less and some pay a lot more.  It all depends on your square meters. If you pay after the 15th, they will fine you.  So hopefully you or your landlord have paid.

The heat is supplied through coal plants.  Then the heat comes in through your boilers and radiators.  It’s the same for everyone all through Northern China.  Some houses in the country do not get the government’s central heating and they have to buy their own coal to heat their houses.  But for the most part, all apartments in Shijiazhuang will get the central heating.

It usually takes a few days for you to “really feel” the central heating.  If you want to regulate it, you will have to open a window.  The government sets the indoor heating to about 16-20 C / 60-68 F.

If your apartment has many drafts, you may not necessarily feel “warm.” If you live between floors, perhaps your house feels warmer than some apartments on the first or top floor.

If you close all of the bedroom doors, kitchen doors (some have sliding doors) this can help keep your main living area and other rooms stay a bit warmer.  Get a big rug.  It may add a “warm” cozy feeling to your apartment.

Also, if you have a large air conditioning unit, it should also have a heating function.  If you use it regularly, you may have to top up your electrical card, but it’s a good trade off in my book.  Even older air conditioning models and ceiling units will let you adjust the temperatures.  Hopefully you stay warm this winter!

Job scares in China

I’ve met a lot of people with fantastic jobs in China. And then I’ve met some with nightmarish ones.  I don’t think anyone really knows what their job will be like until they get into the swing of things.  But for many, perhaps you’re thinking about getting a job here, looking at some of the different options, and want to teach English.

Living in China has enough challenges of it’s own.  I want you to get a good job, or one you’re happy with, and one that has a secure and legal contract and that gets you a visa:) Most people in Shijiazhuang are either studying Chinese, teaching English or doing business.  My suggestions all have to do with jobs related to English teaching.

A good teaching experience: You go up front, 50 students all look at you and write down your examples and then after class tell you how much they appreciate you.  Students want to get together with you and you are making a difference.

A bad experience: Your “orientation” is non-existent, you are dropped off at an apartment and left to fend for yourself until classes start.  You don’t understand the routine or what level your students are at.

Teaching English in China can be very rewarding.  There are many people who have studied for over a decade, but never practiced it with a native speaker.  You aren’t just another person to them.  You really do make a difference in their lives.

So read through some tips and hopefully you will be better prepared and understand the situation here and choose your job wisely.  REMEMBER, it is VERY easy to get a job teaching English.  You may have to seek it out, but from experience, it can be done!!

Teaching English

There are TONS of opportunities to teach English in China and especially in Shijiazhuang.  I literally get asked a few times a week if I could teach.  Most universities, technical colleges, middle schools, kindergartens and ALL English institutes are looking for English teachers.  Some of them advertise on the internet on pages like Dave’s Cafe, Ecities China, etc.  If you’re here in this city.  WALK to a university and tell them you want to teach.  Bring in your resume and see what happens.  I would be surprised if they didn’t offer you a job.  Here are my thoughts…

  • Look into teaching at a university or middle school because you will get a fair and official contract.  Your hours should be set and most likely, in Shijiazhuang, they will be around 12-20 hours at university per week.  I believe class hours might be higher at a middle school.  They will sort out your visa and should give you an apartment allowance (or apartment).  (Whether or not you want to live there is all part of it:) )   I think a general university full-time position pays around $3800 rmb a month. Your hours aren’t excessive, and if you want, you’ll have time to casually study Chinese, do other things, etc.
  • Be a bit wary about English “institutes.”  You’re read about them, they sound great.  They have a wonderful web-site, offer you (what seems like) good money and a “western” apartment.  They also offer you “flexible hours.“  Translation: the schedule is not set and they will change it daily and weekly depending on their demand for teachers (tons of it) and encourage you to teach… and teach… and teach.  They have no intentions of being flexible with you.  If you teach more, they earn more.  Many really only care about the money and not about the kids, quality of English teaching, etc.  This is a generalization and I’m sure that there are some great and honest institutes out there.  Some of them give you unfair contracts, (or maybe you will never see a contract!) conditions change, the “airport pick-ups” are sometimes not gauranteed, and your wages are probably not as good as they should be.  Their turn-around is probably a teacher every month since it’s too much for most people to take.  Will they get you a visa?  Maybe.  Most institutes will (should be) pay you around 120-160 RMB an hour to teach a classroom of kids.
  • PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE stay away from “agents” or company’s that want to help you to volunteer in China.  They are a total scam.  In this city, there are various ones.  Please stay away from New Dimensions. Or really, any company that offers to help you “volunteer and gain experience teaching and serving in China,” etc.  They will happily get you here and put you to work, but keep your pay.  Yes, it may seem like that’s what volunteering is, but they are corrupt and are not non-profit.  Trust me, they are all-profit.  The more directly you get a job, the better.  If you do want to “serve and volunteer” look for a well-known organization, ask others, check into helping at an orphanage, etc.  Otherwise, get a contract and teach English with a university and “serve” the students.
  • Individual tutoring can be great.  Parents and young people want to improve their English and most of them would JUMP on an opportunity to have a personal tutor.  A native English speaker in this city generally charges around 150-200 RMB per hour for an individual lesson.  Obviously this will not secure you a visa and many universities don’t allow you to teach privately.

So yes, come and teach English.  It really is a great way to use your TEFL qualifications, improve your CV, take a year out, do something different, see the world, etc.  But please, get a good contract with a reputable university or institute (EVEN if you’re looking at coming for a minimal time) and do the background on the company.

 

Total Wipe-Out

Today the Hebei TV show, their version of Total Wipe-Out, filmed foreigners and Chinese participants at White Deer Springs.  It was fun to watch.  There was an obstacle course in the pool and participants had 150 seconds to get through it and then answer a question.  If they got the question right within the time-frame, they were rewarded 1000 rmb.  I think the course looked easy until I saw people on it, falling in the water, etc.

Everyone seemed to have fun competing.  The questions were yes or no questions in Chinese, so people had a 50% chance of getting them right (even if they didn’t understand!)

I don’t know when it airs, but I’ll let you know.

The acrobats are in town

I was outside today and suddenly I saw about 20 blond-haired kids!  They were twisting, jumping and doing amazing acrobats.  Usually in my apartment complex the kindergarteners go outside the play, there are occasionally art shows, etc. but I’ve never seen anything like this (right outside my front door).  So I watched the Russian kids, the American clowns and Taiwanese singers and acrobats.  They all took turns performing different acts.  Now I want to go and watch them at the art center.

I’ve read online that on the 31st of October they’re performing at the Shijiazhuang Art Center.  It’s next to the Wonder Mall.

The event is the Wuqiao International Acrobatics Festival.  They come every other year and in a few days 200 people from places like Russia, France, the USA, Australia, Taiwan, etc. will perform.

“Ten foreign experts and two Chinese scholars serve as the judges for the competition. The prize for the top award, Gold Lion, will be 50,000 yuan.”

It looks like tickets are around 200 RMB. Here’s the address and phone number to check..

Hebei Arts Center : 169 Yuhua Xilu, Shijiazhuang -0311-87889011

UPDATE: The show was amazing!  I got tickets from someone selling extra tickets outside.  They started at 100 rmb and I gave them 50 rmb for it.  I was way in the back, but the theater is quite small, so it was fine.  Loved it all!  Tons of variety and people from everywhere.  Think they are still performing?!  Try to go!